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Ask Shauna Z (April 2018)

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8 Responses

  1. Stacy says:

    Should a woman every approach a man? Or should I wait for him to talk to me first?

  2. Melissa says:

    I just went on a date with a very nice guy. He’s pretty much perfect on paper. He’s texted me several times already today. The problem is I don’t know if we have chemistry or not. I had fun and everything, I just didn’t feel any sparks. I’m not sure if I should go out with him again or not. He’s doing everything right but I’m not getting excited when he texts me like I have with other guys. Should I keep dating him? Or should I just move on? There’s no one else I’m really talking to but there are guys I’d like to write me back online. What should I do?

  3. Valerie says:

    Question: Should I get back with my ex? Or try to get back with my ex? We dated for 6 months. He said his feelings changed. We were talking about our future one day and then all of the sudden one day he said he wasn’t sure if he wanted a relationship and wanted a break.

    I said fine. We didn’t talk for the first week. It’s been a month now and he is texting me again. We’ve hung out 2 times this week. We will go days without talking, but then he will text me and say he misses me. I really really miss him.

    I’ve been dating, but I don’t like anyone. I feel so different when I’m with my ex. So should I keep hanging out with my ex? How do I have the talk that I want to get back together?

  4. Allison says:

    I have a guy friend I really really like. He always wants to hang out and sometimes we even cuddle. He always tells me abou all of his dating problems…. but that’s as far as it’s gone. I really want to try dating him but I don’t know how to make that happen. Is it possible to make him see me as more than a friend?

  5. Jess says:

    Do you think you should wait a certain amount of time (for example after a few months or a certain number of dates) before being intimate with someone or should it just be based on how you feel and your emotions towards them?

  6. Lily says:

    Can I ask the guy to define the relationship?

    I’ve been seeing this amazing guy for the last 2 months and I am super happy with him. When we are together I have so much fun and it’s easy being with him. Then, when we are apart I don’t really hear from him unless It’s to make plans, or random banter about my latest Instagram story. Is he super busy? Am I just a (gulp) Bootycall? As a woman, my role is to be receptive, but is it ok to bring up relationship status or how i feel first?


  7. Precious says:

    I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months now and he barely creates time for me. Although that is understandable because we attend different schools and our calendar is different. Anyway, even in the long distance relationship, he barely call and we don’t even get to chat well cux of one reason or the other, network, bad battery, electricity, and worse part recently, his phone was stolen. Anyways, he got a new small phone that browse and operates WhatsApp. Even with this, he barely call and anytime I don’t call, we can go days without talking… I mean 6 to 7 days. This has been happening for the past 4 months now. I have been complaining and repeating the same complaint over again. He’s never changed. I am tired and I don’t wanna do this again. I sent him a message and I stated that I want a break from all this, my friends feel I should have broken up and not a break but I don’t know what to do. Please help me. 

  8. AJ says:

    When is the right time to date? How do you balance a relationship and a successful career?

    I’ve been casually dating guys for the past 3 years and haven’t pursued anything further because my priority is law school. Well, I’m about to finish law school and now I just want to be in a relationship more than ever. However, I sit for the bar at the end of July which means 12-13 hour study days (so definitely no free time to date). The guys I’ve dated while in school have just kind of been to pass my time when I do have free time and eventually end up ghosting when they realize law school is more important to me. At first, guys think it’s awesome I’m in law school then they find out I have a busy schedule and start to fade away. Most of the guys don’t understand or believe me when I say I can’t go out on a Friday/Saturday night because I’m studying. The few guys I do end up seeing myself go further with don’t want to pursue anything further besides a few dates (before sex is even involved). I’m at the point where I am considering giving online dating a try.

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